Day 37: Gevurah she’b’Yesod, Judgment within Foundation
What’s the foundation of spiritual practice?
My friend Jamal Rahman says it is confronting our ego. Not once and for all—no one can do it that way. But patiently, over time, and in many different situations. Because the ego never goes away. In almost every situation, “I” feel something, want something, hope to achieve something. This focuses our perspective and narrows it. So much so, that we may lose track of the effects of our actions. And then cause harm to ourselves and others.
So, sometimes it’s helpful to take a step back. Broaden the focus. Look a little more objectively at what the ego wants and where it might lead. And then act in a more intentional way.
You might know Jamal as a Sufi author, teacher, and spiritual director. Or you might know him as one of the Interfaith Amigos. This group of three—a Rabbi, Imam, and Minister—came together right after 9/11. They write and teach together about topics like spiritual practice, religious divisions, doing interfaith work, and more.
Well, some months ago, the original Rabbi (Ted Falcon) retired. And the remaining Amigos invited me to join the group. So I’m very excited to work with Imam Jamal and Pastor Don MacKenzie.
Yesterday we were talking about partnering with the Charter for Compassion. And about how many hits a video about “taming the ego” could get. And then suddenly we all started laughing at once. Where does our desire to teach end and our ambition begin? Where do they blend?
Of course we will still seek good topics and good venues. But, as we do so, we want to walk in a good way! With attention to how our work is actually helpful!
So, here’s to good judgment—a foundation for wise living.
QUESTION: What does “taming the ego” mean to you?
New to the Omer? Here’s a guide to the theory and practice. Want to learn more about different definitions of Tiferet? Here’s a resource.
Image: Photo of Laura Duhan-Kaplan at Mt. Baker by Charles Kaplan
